Top Blogs: THE BIG SWALLOW dearly love to finish it too but first you have to realize what the consequences could be. If I let this go further and your mother found out, my relationship with her would probably end. Your relationship with her would be strained, at the very least. And let's not forget that if that happens, then you and I would have a strained relationship if we had any relationship at all! I know that I'd hate losing all of that."